A very sweet, wise, young woman, who I love very much, told me this the other day -
“You are way too hard on yourself and you put yourself down constantly. I wish you didn’t, because not a part of you deserves it. You work hard for the things you do Gwen and it’s hard for me to stand on the sidelines and watch you do that to yourself. Who cares what other people think? Honestly, think about the people who have put you down in your life. Now think of where they are. They’re going to say something no matter what you do. As for me, I’m proud of you. I love you for what you do and who you are..”
This simple message has given me an entirely new view on life itself. I’m blessed beyond all compare with the things, opportunities and people that I have in my life, so why should I let a few people try and tear me apart and break me down? I’m here to say this - You won’t tear me apart and you won’t break me down. I think it’s fair enough to say that with everyone and everything I have in my life, negativity and those who bring it, have no place with those who love, care, support and encourage me.
